Episode 499: Write the Book Before You Write the Book: 8 Ways to Test Your Message Before You Type Chapter One
Have you ever poured your heart into a book idea, only to wonder if anyone will actually want to read it? What if there was a way to know—before you write a single chapter—that your message will resonate with readers?
In this episode of the Writing at the Red House podcast, Kathi Lipp and Cheri Gregory reveal the approach that separates successful authors from those whose books gather dust: writing your book before you write your book.
For writers who feel overwhelmed by the prospect of investing months (or years) into a manuscript without knowing if it will connect, this conversation offers a liberating path forward. Instead of hiding your ideas until they're "perfect," Kathi and Cheri share eight practical ways to test, refine, and develop your message while simultaneously building the audience who's waiting for it.
What You'll Discover in This Episode
- Why keeping your book idea "under wraps" until release is one of the biggest mistakes new authors make
- How podcasting activates different parts of your brain and surfaces ideas that would never emerge through writing alone
- The power of being a guest on other podcasts to flex your message for different audiences
- Why social media feedback—even when it takes your idea in unexpected directions—is invaluable for your writing process
- How to develop a signature framework that gives your ideas memorable shape
- The freedom that comes from calling your workshop a "pilot" or "beta" program
- Why you're not responsible for your readers' transformation—just for providing the tools
- The mindset shift from "what I want to say" to "what they desperately need to know"
Key Takeaways for Writers
Start serving now. Publishers, agents, and your future readers don't want you waiting for a book deal to share your message. The book becomes a synthesis of what you've already been teaching—not the starting point.
Use different platforms to access different parts of your brain. Speaking and writing engage different cognitive processes. What emerges in conversation may never appear when you're sitting alone trying to craft perfect sentences.
Fall in love with your people. The process of testing your message transforms you from someone who has something to say into someone who desperately wants to serve. That shift shows up in every word you write.
Whether you're just beginning to dream about your first book or you're refining ideas for your next project, this episode offers a roadmap for developing content that truly connects—long before you type "Chapter One."

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About Our Guests

Cheri Gregory
Author, Speaker, Mentor, Founder of Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe
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Resources Mentioned
- Scrivener (Writing Software)
Scrivener is a writing tool used by many writers to organize and manage writing projects.
- Growing Sensitive and Strong Program (Cheri Gregory)
Growing Sensitive & Strong, a program for highly sensitive people.
- Sensitive and Strong Website
Cheri Gregory's website for resources for highly sensitive Christian women.
- Let Them Theory (Mel Robbins)
Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins (book referenced as an example).
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